When is hiring a male stripper appropriate?
How to hire a Stripper.
Some tips for making sure things go smoothly.
How To Have The Best Time With A Male Stripper.
Other things.
A word about alternatives.
WHEN IS HIRING A MALE STRIPPER APPROPIATE?
If you are planning a party for a friend, you probably already know if she will want a stripper. You should also consider the other people who will be attending the party. If your friend's mum will be there you might want to skip the naked, gyrating man meat. Some women won't be fazed at all by the presence of their mother in law. Other possible buzz killing attendees could include sisters of the groom, grandmothers, nuns, married folks, prudes, conservatives, and anyone with a heart condition. Having said that, I speak from personal experience when I say approached in the right way and with the right respectful, fun and professional attitude the buzz killing folks generally can be swayed into loving it.
If you have decided to limit the number of invitations you need to send out because of the buzz killers, I ask you not to. In fact I can assure you that that the hearts and minds of people are easily changed when they come to realise that it is not about making anyone feel uncomfortable. It is nothing more than sexy fun.
There are a number of great reasons to see some gyrating man flesh at a hen's party. This will be your friend's last night out. She will probably never again have the opportunity to see, feel, or touch a strange-yet-attractive man for the rest of her life. It is also likely that her groom will begin a slow descent into beer-gutted ness as soon as the reception begins. The memory of six-pack abs and firm buns will probably last for many years. Send your friend out with a bang.
HOW TO HIRE A STRIPPER
To hire a stripper to come to someone's house and dance for 2-3 songs you should expect to pay $180 to $220. If you have 20 women this price can be fairly reasonable.
If you have located a company here are a few questions to ask:
- Do you have a website where you can see photos of the men?
- How much is your rate and what percentage does the stripper get? Often the more the stripper gets the better the performance.
- How long does that last?
- Does it include travel to my location?
- What will the dancer do? (usually agreed to in # of songs)
- What rules are in place that our party should know about?
- Will he take off all of his clothing?
- Will he come wearing a costume? What choices are there?
- Will he bring his own music and boom box?
- What should we provide?
- How do you bill us (all up front, 50% up front, etc)?
- Do you have anyone available on this date?
SOME TIPS FOR MAKING SURE THINGS GO SMOOTHLY
- Keep the phone number of the agency handy. Strippers are almost always late. You might have to call to find out where they are.
- Be sure to provide them with good directions to the location. The stripper may have a party before yours and after yours. If they can't find yours in a timely manner they may only stay for a short time or may never show up.
- Try to get confirmation in writing by fax or email.
- Try to view a picture of the stripper beforehand. Just because they are a stripper doesn't guarantee you want to see them naked!
- Book the person fairly early then call a few days before the party to be sure everything is still ok.
- Sometimes you may want an unplanned show, in that case just call me on 021 2400066
- It is not always understood that music is the one aspect of a Gram/ show that is crucial to most dancers. If you have a small radio 9 out of 10 times when the first lady shows her approval the music becomes inaudible and does not allow the theme of his show to be appreciated. I always recommend a loud music system.
HOW TO HAVE THE BEST TIME WITH A MALE STRIPPER
Make sure the lady of the hour gets hers. The stripper is here for her. Arrange a chair for her to sit on in the centre of the room, your stripper will know what to do from there. Tell the stripper the lady's name. If you are to be the centre of attention play along. You'll have fun and your friends will too. If the guy comes dressed as a pizza man, tell him you like extra pepperoni and sausage. If he comes dressed as a fireman, tell him you are feeling a little hot. It is much more fun if you play the game and flirt a little. You can be sure he will flirt back.
Here are some things the bride-to-be can say to get a laugh:
- What are you doing on (wedding date)?
- Wow! Are they supposed to be that big?
- What do you think you are doing?
- Jim (groom's name)? Jim who?
- I'm still single!
- I've never seen that (one of those) before.
- Come to Mama!
- Spice it up with a rolled dollar bill placed behind your ear, in your teeth, in your cleavage, in the waist of your pants, between your knees, or somewhere on the lucky lady.
OTHER THINGS
You might not be able to take pictures of the stripper once he starts doing his thing. He might let you take his picture after he is dressed again.
Make sure you have music that plays quite loud as to adds to the vibe and the dancer will be able to give you his best performance especially if he dancing to a theme.
Have a few drinks and a great time! Please don't drink and drive!!!
A WORD ABOUT ALTERNATIVES
I can guarantee that an issue of Playgirl magazine is sure to be a hit. Dirty movies might be a massive flop. I have been to a party where someone rented a dirty movie that featured men with really, really large penises. When it first started it seemed like they were having fun but after a few minutes this subsided. The women in the film were really being degraded and the men were not attractive at all. Not sexy. A friend of mine attended a party where they rented some gay porn. They figured that men rented films featuring lesbians so why couldn't they have the same fun.
My friend went on to say "At first we were like Go Go Get him! but then when they started to do it...wasn't too thrilling". Although I found my friend's story very funny I am not sure that it made for a great party. Other alternatives include dirty magazines (like Playgirl) and dirty movies. However there is no replacement for a traditional stripper.
